But then again, he's a male, so emotional fulfillment doesn't matter. The LW should google the "Eva" toy. Basically it's a vibrator that sits on top of the clit, hands-free, during PIV sex. I close my eyes so I can concentrate on the feeling and reach orgasm. Though, now I'm going to be paranoid any time I catch my spouse closing his eyes during sex! I find that slow and steady often wins the race for me, anyway.
Why Stimulating Her Clitoris AND Labia = Orgasm!
Suzi Godson: I can only climax when I’m on top | Weekend | The Times
I Went to an 'Orgasm Stylist' to Help Me Chill Out Enough to Climax
There are different kinds of orgasms. This is the idea behind the Queen Bee, a hairbrush-shaped vibrator just released by Hot Octopuss , a company that has, until now, made exclusively male sex toys including their most famous, the "Guybrator ". The Queen Bee's patented buzzing unit, located on the oval "brush" part, oscillates up and down on your clitoris, unlike your traditional vibrator, which buzzes side to side and much less dramatically. To celebrate the launch, Hot Octopuss hosted a two-day pop-up in New York City where women could meet with an "orgasm stylist"—otherwise known as a sex therapist, but they're being cute—and customize their orgasms based on her masturbation tips.
Q: I would say that my boyfriend and I have a good sex life, but I can only have an orgasm if I am on top. Do you have any suggestions for other positions that would have the same effect? A: You make it sound as though something is wrong with you, but you are actually a member of a rather elite group. Sex may be synonymous with penetration, but the truth is, penetrative sex is probably the least reliable way of ensuring that a woman achieves orgasm. Research has shown that at least 70 per cent of women do not usually orgasm during intercourse.